Monday 14 November 2011

Please Help Me Get My Ex Girlfriend Back

How many times do men ask their friends how do I get my ex girlfriend back?  Honestly, I thought it was a woman's prerogative to change her mind.  Some men just don't know when they are onto a good thing and their reasons for ending relationships border on the ridiculous.

My male friends have finished with girls for:
1) wearing the wrong type of shoes!
2) Her mother
3) The new barmaid at his favorite bar smiled at him.

Now ok I know that a pretty face can turn any man's head and there is the dreaded notion that a woman may turn into her mother but come on guys - the wrong type of shoes?  If women didn't date men because of the clothes they were wearing the human race would have died out long ago.  Behind every well dressed man is a good woman- in early life his mother and later his wife!

I always tell my men friends that they need to make a list before they break up with their partners.  On one side of the list, you put her good points.  Do you find her interesting? Does she look after you?  Does she cook for you?  Does she laugh at your jokes?  Are you attracted to her?

On the other side of the list, they can put the things that wind them up.  Ok she may nag at little too much but then if you put the toilet seat down she might stop.  She may not want more than a cuddle every evening but five times a week doesn't mean that she isn't caring enough.

Writing the good and bad points of your life together down on paper may seem like a cold approach but it is a very practical way of seeing what a great relationship you do/did have. You need to compare the two lists and decide if you should be breaking up with this woman. If you are doing it after the event, it also helps to clarify if you made the right decision to finish the relationship. Sometimes we regret breaking up as we end up feeling lonely.  But loneliness is not a reason to get back together.

If you have dumped the lady in your life but now know it was the wrong decision you need to act fast.  Great life partners do not grow on trees.  She has shown that she will put up with you in all your glory - how many women would be mad enough to do that? 

Take a leaf out Richard Gere's book and put some romance back into her life.  Send her flowers - not a bunch of red roses but some of her favorites.  Send her a handwritten letter telling her how much you love her and miss her.  Book her favorite restaurant and treat her to a night out.  In short, you need to treat her just like the princess you believe her to be and assuming you are not a complete disgrace, you won't have ask how to get my ex girlfriend back.

3 comments:

  1. This is my testimony about the good work of a man who helped me..My name is Olivia Jane Mike, and I base in London.My life is back!!! After 8 years of marriage, my husband left me and left me with our three kids. I felt like my life was about to end,and was falling apart. Thanks to a spell caster called papa Justus who i met online. On one faithful day, as I was browsing through the internet, I was searching for a good spell caster that can solve my problems. I came across series of testimonies about this particular spell caster. Some people testified that he brought their Ex lover back, some testified that he restores womb, some testified that he can cast a spell to stop divorce and so on. There was one particular testimony I saw, it was about a woman called grace,she testified about how papa Justus brought back her Ex lover in less than 72 hours and at the end of her testimony she drop papa Justus e-mail address. After reading all these,I decided to give papa a try. I contacted him via email and explained my problem to him. In just 3 days, my husband came back to me. We solved our issues, and we are even happier than before. papa Justus is really a talented and gifted man and i will not to stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man...If you have a problem and you are looking for a real and genuine spell caster to solve that problem for you. Try the great papa Justus today, he might be the answer to your problem. Here's his contact:
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  2. We all have different reasons why those of us who contacted Obudun Magonata to help us make our faithful to us some of us did it for lover, because of their children or health condition or even because they wanted not to be alone. For me it was non of those though i love my husband and don't want to raise our teens alone . The reason why i contacted Obudun Magonata to help me with a spell truly was because my husband was running for one of the seats in the Riksdag,the national legislative body of Sweden. Now i am not going to say if he won or under what party for security reasons i did not ask for a spell to make him win or something NO i just asked for a spell to make him stop being a chronic Womanizer it was going to affect his campaign. I have lived with him for 20 years and after countless occasions of catching him cheating on me i have come to live with him like that though it hurts to death. I wish i knew all along all those years about Obudun the Great spell caster maybe my life would not have been this way. Like i was saying, His womanizing behavior got him into a lot of trouble and if any of those stories where to hit the press it would have destroyed his life and this political career and probably landed him in jail. With all the advise from me and his advisories of his campaigning team it was still not enough to bring him to caution. I went to the extreme to make sure he stops willingly or unwillingly that is i meant with some of his lover and asked to pay them off but they were not ready to let go it. I think he offered them something more that money that even with the amount i offered them, they all refused and believe me it was very surprising and they will turn down a large amount of money. We my husband got to know about it he mad mad at me and gave all sort of threats. I was confused and his opposition were digging to find dirt on him and still was so convinced that they will not find anything but they did only with no evidence that was how lucky we were. Right then i took matters in my hand and contacted Obudun Magonata with the email address i saw on the internet i contacted him and told him what i want him to do for me to make my husband be faithful to me till our dying day and make all those people looking for how to bring down my husband stop. OK note my husband is a very honest man who would not hurt a fly he was just careless and always picked the wrong kinds of woman that get him in trouble. Obudun Magonata asked that i provide 4 kind of item me being so careful employed expert to help me get those materials mailed them over to him. I sent a total some of 3000 dollars when converting from Swedish Krona to American dollars. And it much much cheaper if i had asked him to get them for me. But whats done is done. Just after four day sent me a package, not telling its content but is totally harmless and told me how to make the spell effective. I did as he told me and in two my husband somehow magically broke tires with all the women he was involved with i don't know how it happen and those people trying to kill his political ambition stopped immediately. I wish i knew this Great man all along my life would have been perfect. His campaign team did not understand how i did it and what i did they were just happy all the worse is past. What wow me the most about Obudun Magonata was that the told me the out come of the election before the election date last years because all this happened last year and just what he said will happen really came to pass. And again i can't give full info because of security reasons. I little advise for those that are going to contact him via this email spiritsofobudunmagonata@yahoo.com if you are asked for material to do the spell don't go about it yourself Because you will waste a lot time and money on it and get to see asking him to get them for you with the total cost you wire to him will save you a lot. You have nothing be be afraid you can trust him with anything Because all he does is help people no matter how hard it may be.

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  3. A very big problem occurred in my family 4 months ago,between me and my husband. So terrible that he took the case to court for a divorce. He said that he never wanted to stay with me again,and that he didn’t love me anymore. So he packed out of the house to where i do not know about and made me and my children passed through severe pain. I tried all possible means to get him back. After much begging,but all to no avail / Success. And he confirmed it that he has made his decision,and he never wanted to see me again. So on one afternoon when i came back from the house of my best friend that know how to advise me very well. As i was coming back from her place, I saw an old friend of mine who asked of my husband. So i also explained every thing to her just the way i did to my best friend on what happened between me and my husband. So she told me that the only way i can get my husband back is to visit a spell caster. Because it has really worked for her. As a Christian i never believed in spell casting,but during all this problem and letting the love of my life go just like that and the father to my lovely kids i had no other choice than to follow her advice. Then she gave me the email address of the spell caster whom she visited to solve her own marriage issues also. At this time i was full with so much grief and confusion on how this can really be true to the extent that i have to ask my friend so many question like if this is not to harm or have an effect on my life and that of my lovely children after it has been done. But she replied with so much seriousness by telling me that there is no harm and there is no side effect on the spell casting, That is just to get back my husband for my kids and also for him to love me like never before, That the spell caster even made his friend win lottery two days back, That there is noting / problem anyone find his or herself that this great spell caster can not solve. After her explanation that there is noting that will happen to us other than to just get back my husband i requested on how i could contact this great and powerful spell caster that she is talking about. She gave his email address to me that i wrote down on a jotter and when i got home i emailed the spell caster with the following email: ajayiololo@yahoo.com after some few time that same day i received a form that i will fill and return to him. After that i was asked to get some materials that will be needed to cast this spell that if i can not provide them i will send the cost which was what i did just to see the outcome of the spell casting. And before i send the cost of the materials to him he assured me that even that same day if he get the money for the materials or the materials from my end that my lover / husband will return back in the next 4 to 5 hours time same-day after the spell has been casted with the materials he will get with the money that i will send down since i could not get the materials on my own to send to him to do the spell casting. The spell caster assured me that i will get my husband back after that process. What an amazing statement!! I never believed, So surprisingly after the 4 to 5 hours he told me i will get my husband back things changed in my life. My husband who has not call me for the past four months called me on the phone to inform me that he was coming back home to take me out. So Amazing!! So that was how he came back the next day with lots of love and joy,and he apologized for his mistake and for the pain he caused me and my children. Then from that day,our relationship / marriage was now stronger than how it were before,by the help of a spell caster. So i will advice you all out there to kindly send your contact to : ajayiololo@yahoo.com if you are in any problem like this or you have any problem related to “bringing your ex back, Wanting a good job in fact any problem you think you are passing through that do not have solution just send your email with complains to him and he will help you out perfectly well without disappointment.

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